I think it is time to remind y'all that relationships in Noir with members etc.. is frowned upon. It is hard to do Noir job 100% when you are split between Noir and a romance. The old saying that you can't serve two masters because one will always feel slighted is very true. Also that member if it is one will be less an asset to Noir due to the relationship. So really it is a lose/lose situation for Noir. Now I don't want to completely ban them due to some have overcome these obstacles but just remind that it is highly frowned upon and will always cause us to be wary of your intentions. It is best just to leave Noir if you have to share loyalty between it and a romance.
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I think that Cyndi used the word "relationships" too broadly. Noir is all about relationships with members! Romantic entanglements would be more appropriate. And not just with members, but also with your fellow sisters. Simoni really frowns upon romance between ladies. Believe me, I got many lectures!
I am not sure how to respond to this article since it is direct at me I think ?
I have experienced members getting very attached, I also found myself getting attached in the relationship. But like Cyndi said it never seems to work out and someone gets hurt. I have had members want me to leave NOIR and become his wife or GF. Didnt want to share me anymore. What happens, he gets mad and leaves NOIR. We all lose then. It seems you figure this out with experience.
True Cyndi, can't serve two master, It hard enough keeping members happy, fallow all pm, Noir chat and Local chat, some time need translator. Keep it simple no romance 😉😉