Giving an ultimatum, blackmailing and threatening in negotiation are the worst ways to resolve a conflict. On the other hand, these attitudes will result in either a war or indifference and ultimately a negative reputation. On the other hand, ignoring the negative aspects of a conflict and bringing gratifying elements will open the door to fruitful negotiation. In any case, it is essential to foresee the costs of our words and our actions. There is one aspect to remember, who will benefit from the end of the conflict? Because if the conflict persists, no one will benefit from it.
Kwoning and controling our emotions may not be easy. But one is better pose a moment of silence and allow the minds to calm dowm. In every cases a solution will emerge that will satisfy both parties.
In one particular case the resuls are lost of benifits for the socalled powerful party and indifference from the other. And, I will not elaborate on the collateral losts...